I am a proud surfing mom – How about you??
Sometimes, combining surfing and being a mom can be challenging. Trust me … I’m a single mom, and to be honest, I was just so worn out I didn’t surf regularly for three years after my son was born.
And I know how when you’re not surfing all the time, and you’re not in the habit of checking the surf and getting down to the beach every week, you can lose your spark or drive to get back out into the water.
But coming from experience it is so worth putting in that little bit of focus and effort to get back into your old habits and get into the water – often, as much as possible in fact!
Remember the feeling of gliding on a wave to the exhilarating rush of dropping into a barrel? It offers an unparalleled experience that fuels passion and devotion in us, surfers.
After having their kids, I often meet mums who have taken up surfing for the first time. I love seeing the community we share when connecting with other moms and dads.
Don’t ever say I used to surf.
Get Back You’re Surfing Life
So, surfing, right? This fantastic thing started way back with the Polynesians, but now, it’s everywhere!
It’s not just a sport, you know, it’s a lifestyle.
Whether you’re all about those long, cruisy longboards or zippy shortboards, if you’re dipping your toes in or practically a fish, we’re all chasing that same rush.
That moment you’re up on your board, riding the wave, is like nothing else.
If you are new to surfing, I have a series of articles to help you perfect your technique – like Mastering the pop-up.
“Surfing Mom” It’s a funny term, isn’t it?
You are no longer a surfer; now you’re a “surfing mom”??
It took me a while to come to terms with my new identity – surfing mom. I felt a little bit jaded at the start. I was no longer a fun, carefree surfer, surfing when and where I wanted, but now I was organising days in advance, packing sand toys, snacks and kids, and trekking down to the beach.
But then I joined a community of fun, carefree surfers – who happened to be moms, too. These incredible women embrace both motherhood and their love for riding waves with unwavering dedication.
They navigate life’s tides with remarkable grace while raising children and pursuing their passion for surfing. The term “surfing mum” encapsulates their unique journey as they effortlessly balance the demands of parenthood with the exhilaration and freedom found in the ocean.
The Surfer Mom Lifestyle
Balance Between Motherhood and Passion for Surfing
Being a surfing mum is all about finding that delicate balance between the demands of motherhood and the exhilaration of catching waves. These incredible women manage to navigate the waters of parenting while still making time for their beloved surfboards. For them, it’s not just a hobby; it’s a way of life.
They know that caring for their needs enables them to be better mothers to their children. Surfing mums often wake up before dawn, seizing those precious early morning hours when the beach is serene and inviting.
They sneak out quietly, leaving sleeping kids and partners behind, all in pursuit of that perfect wave. They relish those moments where it’s just them, their board, and the ocean – a refreshing escape from the chaos of daily life.
Challenges Faced by a Surf Mom:
Of course, being a surfing mum isn’t without its challenges. Time management becomes an art form as these women juggle school drop-offs, playdates, doctor appointments, and household chores with their desire to hit the waves.
It requires careful planning and efficient use of every available minute. Childcare arrangements are another hurdle for surfing mums to overcome on their quest for surf time.
Some may be fortunate to have supportive partners or family members who can step in and watch the kids while they indulge in salty therapy. Others may rely on babysitters or daycare services for parents seeking a little aquatic adventure.
As a single mum myself, I found great relief in joining a bunch of mums down at the beach – each one of us taking turns surfing and then watching the kids.
And then, there are those super special times when surfing moms share the stoke with their little groms.
Picture this: a sunny day at the beach, tiny toes in the sand, and mini surfboards at the ready. These are the moments when moms teach their kiddos to catch their first baby waves in the shallows. It’s all about splashing around, laughing, and making those precious memories that’ll last a lifetime.
I learned it’s not just about riding waves; it’s about raising kids and passing the love of the ocean and this awesome sport to the next wave of little surfers. Heart-melting, right? 🌊🏄♀️👶💙
Find a local ‘Surfing Moms’ group
More women are surfing, and more moms are seeking ways to continue to surf.
Many coastlines are presently filled with surf moms and parent groups. Parents will go to the beaches and surf for the children while others take care of their children.
This whole surf swap is the perfect way to continue surfing, and your kids will have mates for the rest of the surfing session. Eventually, they may find their surfing buddies when they’re older.
If your in Australia – https://www.surfingmums.com/home/
In America – https://surfingmoms.org/
A surfing mom is a happy mom!!!
I have to agree with this one! Even when I was tired and hadn’t slept – I always felt better after heading to the beach to meet up with other surfer moms.
Surfing mothers share their passion for watching kids surf in the surf. The flipping of turns eliminates the infamous motherhood guilt since the surfing mom gets the same time.
Kids like seeing their moms happy after surfing or playing on their beach. Surfing Moms Village helps new moms and women with their ‘surf care’ and lifelong friendships. Surfing Moms is a great network where you can find others who love surfing and the surf.
Other Benefits of Surfing
Surfing: A Mum’s Ticket to Fitness and Zen
Did you know that when you paddle out into the waves, you’re not just heading for fun but also for a killer workout?
That’s right, you get a full-body exercise every time you hit the surf. Your arms, shoulders, and back get solid training from all that paddling, boosting your strength and cardio fitness.
And let’s talk about balance – riding those waves is like a secret weapon for toning your core and legs. Each surf session is a step towards becoming more robust and more toned. Pretty cool, huh?
But wait, there’s more!
Surfing isn’t just about physical fitness; it’s also like a mental health retreat. It’s the ultimate combo of nature’s therapy and a mental reset button.
The sound of the waves is like nature’s playlist, soothing your mind and soul. And when you’re out there waiting for that perfect wave, it’s all about focus and being in the now. This is where the magic happens – you’re in the zone, riding the wave, feeling like you’re part of the ocean.
Whether cruising on gentle swells or taking on the big ones like a surf pro, every ride leaves you buzzing with energy and feeling super empowered.
So, surfing mums, you’re not just having a blast out there; you’re also getting a fantastic workout and a mental uplift. It’s all about catching those waves and riding to fitness and inner peace. 🏄♀️💪🌊🧘♀️
I have a great article on yoga for surfers here.
Surf Etiquette 101
Alright, surfing mums, let’s chat about surf etiquette. It’s not just about good manners; it’s the golden rule for keeping everyone safe and happy in those busy lineups. You know, those spots where it feels like every surfer in town wants a piece of the action.
First things first: respecting turns. It’s like waiting in line for your favourite coffee – patience is key. Remember to take turns when you’re out there eyeing up the waves. Jumping onto a wave that someone’s already riding? Big no-no. It’s like cutting the line – not cool and can lead to some not-so-fun moments.
Now, let’s talk communication. It’s super important, especially when there are loads of surfers around. A little eye contact here, a hand signal there, or even a friendly shout can go a long way. It’s all about letting others know what you’re planning to do. This way, everyone’s on the same page, and we avoid those awkward ‘oops’ moments.
So, remember these tips: wait your turn, communicate clearly, and always surf with respect. It’s all about sharing the stoke and keeping the vibes good in the water. And remember, while safety’s the top priority, always remember to have a blast riding those waves! 🌊🏄♀️🤙
I have a whole article on this for those new to surfing.
Resources for Surfing Mums
Surf Schools and Camps for Mums
For surfing mums, finding the right support is key. Specialised surf schools and camps offer tailored classes that fit into busy schedules and cater to different skill levels.
They provide experienced instructors who understand the challenges of juggling surfing with childcare. These programs often have flexible timings and equipment rentals, making it easier for mums to hit the waves.
I know it can be challenging, and my experiences have led me to set up surf retreats for surfing mums, including childcare options for single parents.
Online Communities for Surfing Mums
Online communities are great for surfing mums to connect and share experiences. These platforms offer a space to discuss challenges, exchange tips, and build friendships with other surfing mums.
From Facebook groups to specialised forums, these digital spaces allow mums to seek advice, share surf-friendly destinations, and even plan meet-ups.
Get your kids surfing
Key Points and Actionable Steps for Surfing Moms:
- Ignite Their Curiosity:
- Introduce your kids to surfing through books, videos, or watching surfers at the beach.
- Check out resources like “Waves of Love: Surfing with Mommy” by Jenny Woudenberg.
- Start them off with a hand plane to learn how the waves break and gain experience with timing. I have an article on how to get started here.
- Dry Land Training:
- Engage your kids in activities that improve balance and strength, like skateboarding or bodyboarding on land.
- Focus on Fun and Safety:
- Introduce your kids to water early and teach them to swim.
- Always prioritise their comfort and safety, using life vests or buoyancy aids if needed.
- Choose surf spots that are safe and suitable for children.
- Be Creative in Introducing Surfing:
- Try different approaches like bodyboarding, tandem surfing, or using high-volume foam boards.
- The key is to make the experience enjoyable and pressure-free.
- Avoid Pressuring Them:
- Allow your children to develop their love for the ocean at their own pace.
- Respect their individual preferences and interests, even if they differ from yours.
- Consider Surf Schools or Instructors:
- Sometimes, kids learn better from someone other than their parents.
- Enroll them in surf schools or clubs to learn with peers.
- For a bonding experience, consider joint parent-child surf lessons.
- Navigating the Teenage Years:
- As your kids grow into teenagers, balance being present and giving them space.
- Surf at a safe distance to allow them independence while sharing the surf experience.
- Cherish the Long-Term Bond:
- Look forward to the days you can catch up with your grown-up children in the ocean.
- Surfing can become a shared family passion that strengthens bonds over the years.
My son is only 3, so we’re still working on these steps. But I often imagine the day I get to paddle out and share my passion for surfing with him by my side.
Last Thoughts
So, there you have it, fellow surfing mums and those curious about joining our salty sisterhood. Surfing isn’t just about catching waves; join surfing moms; it’s about capturing moments – those precious, exhilarating moments that remind us we’re not just moms but adventurers at heart.
Remember, friends, it’s never too late to jump back on the board or start fresh. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or a newbie, the ocean doesn’t judge – it welcomes all with open arms and endless waves.
And to those mums still on the fence, thinking, “Can I really do this?” – Yes, you absolutely can! Surfing is more than a sport; it’s a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and pure joy. It’s about finding that perfect balance between motherhood’s chaos and the ocean’s peace.
So, grab your board, rally your little ones, and join us in the water. Let’s ride the waves together, creating a symphony of splashes and laughter, and show the world the incredible power of surfing mums. After all, we’re not just riding waves but making waves in surfing and beyond.
Surf’s up, mums! Let’s show these waves what we’re made of. 🌊🏄♀️👩👧👦💙
If anyone is having trouble with getting back into surfing bigger waves then this article is for you. Learn to surf bigger waves and abolish your surf anxiety and fear.